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In any relationship, it takes two. We usually think it's the other person's fault, and rant and carp about what THEY did......but what did you do? "Nothing! I did NOTHING!" you protest. But you were there. You were in the relationship, you responded, even if you didn't precipitate it. Like the yin-yang symbol, where there's a little white in the black and a little black in the white, there is a kernel of responsibility on each side, that grows into the whole.
In the final analysis, we can only change ourselves, but as EFT Master, Rue Hass said,
"It is remarkable when we change our perception of ourselves,
we automatically change our perception of the world,
and then the world changes."
In essence, then,
It's not what happens it's my reaction to it
Even if you believe you are completely innocent, it takes two...and when you take responsibility for your participation, your world changes.
The two of you got together for a purpose. As the producer of LOST quipped over a scene during the last episode (when "Desmond" deliberately ran over "John Locke" wheeling himself across the parking lot in his wheelchair): "Sorry officer, I was just being the facilitator of his catalyst awakening". You are in the relationship for a purpose. | You drew that person in to your life for a reason....to learn....to grow....to move along the evolutionary path. They acted one way, you acted another, and somehow it didn't mesh,....even with all good intent.
Remember:
It's not what happens it's my reaction to it
Ultimately, nothing is good or bad, it just is. It's how we react that sets the ball in motion.
What if you had acted differently? What if you zigged instead of zagged? How would it be different today?
Whether its the stars you were born under, or the family matrix pattern brought down thru the centuries with our ancestors to us for healing...or the decisions you made as a child.... you are part of the issue. Taking responsibility for that is half the answer. Narcissists tend to live to an old age because they never take responsibility for anything and are never wrong so there is no guilt. Look at the situation and recognize your part in it. How would you do it differently if you could start over????? One way is to use EFT.
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